At Stonehill, over 20 percent of students identify as first-generation. As the first in their family to attend college, these students are paving the way to their own definition of success. In support of these trailblazers, we asked members of our first-generation community to offer tips on finding your niche, seeking resources, and facing the unknown. 

Cultivating A Sense of Belonging 

“There will be moments when you feel isolated and drained, as if everyone around you has already figured out how to navigate college life—effortlessly building friendships, connecting with professors, and finding the resources they need to thrive. But remember, you’re not alone on this journey. Finding others who share your experiences and connecting with a faculty mentor can light the way through these tough times.” –Anwar Mhajne, Associate Professor of Political Science 

“Impostor syndrome is real. You’re not alone in feeling like you don’t belong on the campus or that you can’t succeed in your courses, but you absolutely can and will. Find your circle (students, faculty, staff) at Stonehill who will uplift you and remind you of your abilities and potential.” –Omar Rodriguez, Associate Director of Intercultural Affairs 

“Have grace and be patient with yourself. Going to college as a first-generation student is exciting, but also nerve-wracking. Be proud of how far you have come and just do your best. Take full advantage of everything the school offers. You will find your sense of belonging at Stonehill. This community is welcoming to all.” –Ava Remmey ’25 

Director of Intercultural Affairs Teddi Nguyen Lydon (left) and Associate Vice President of Student Affairs/Dean of Students Kevin Piskadlo (right) present the First-Generation Pin to Kemuel Navarrete '22 (center) at Stonehill's Unity Graduation.

Discovering Valuable Resources 

Counseling Services is valuable because taking care of your mental health should always take priority. Everyone there is friendly and wants to help you take care of yourself. And if they don’t have what you need, they’ll help you find the off-campus resources that can help you.” –Jennifer Bradford ’25  

“The Office of Academic Advising runs a First-Generation Scholars program that provides academic, professional, financial and social support. The advisors and peers who are part of that program have likely felt the same things you’re feeling.” –Caroline Green ’25  

“Visit the Office of Intercultural Affairs. They can help connect you with others who share similar experiences. They oversee GenOne, a dialogue group led by students that’s specifically for first-generation community members.” –Phan Nhu Uyen Nguyen ’26  

Tackling Uncertainty 

“Look at uncertainty as you being strong enough to put yourself in a situation that may feel a bit uncomfortable. Don’t look to the old to bring on anything new. Get out and meet all the others, who, like you, may also feel uncertain. Someday, you will look back at your younger self and be amazed you were uncertain at all.” –Karen Boen, Cross Country Coach 

“Find a buddy who is a junior or senior. They give great advice and can help with classes. I help my friends who are just starting out at Stonehill, and they are grateful for the assistance. It’s nice having someone to look up to and show you the ropes.” –Elizabeth Pirundini ’25  

“Nobody arrives to college knowing everything. Spend your first year easing into every aspect of campus life. Live in the moment and respond as you seem fit. Never be afraid of what people may think of you. There will always be those who will see your point of view. A Stonehill alumnus once gave me this advice: college is a time where individuals discover what values are important and learn to express themselves freely. Hopefully at the end of your college journey, you will emerge as someone your past self would be proud about.” –Rommer Pena ’27